Encompass Love In The World Mayan

Rows of the above words are common words that appear on computer screens in a dialogue between two screens commonly called chat. A dialog facilities cyberspace (the Internet) are favored especially by young people and professionals. Its use is then not only as a means of communication such as telephone, letter or email.
Internet with a range of facilities on offer so spoiling its users. Only by playing with your fingers just pressing 'keys' and click 'mouse' just a split second you are able to penetrate the world with no boundaries of space and time. And one that is in tune and keep a lot of users today are chatting.
Among Muslims, chat facility was originally used for the event and taushiah friendship. But as the development needs and bustle of its users, as well as the nature of 'spoiling' their services, the facility is not only replace the role of letters that are considered 'traditional' in addition to delays due to delivery of the information, phone the cost is relatively more expensive especially if you have to use long-distance connection , even friendship with the media event 'face' could be replaced with this one facility, because you can send a picture (pic = short for 'picture') to display your interlocutor.
Initially, each user (user) beginner is to try or just for fun because a friend told little about the 'good' it was jolly-chat in front of a computer screen. Initially you will also like the 'stupid' when the sequence of words appear on the screen of your monitor and then you are interested to answer any questions that arise. But then after all this time trying to, you begin to enjoy and justify your friends stories about the pleasure of chatting. You are already beginning to understand the terms like; asl, btw, thx, fyi, and others where some terms are also applicable in the sending of electronic mail (email) or code like:),: (,: D,: p ,:)), ;-| and much more. Not only that, you unconsciously started to smile and even laugh alone as your speaker that is located somewhere where it is located exactly in front of you.
Spreading the Cyber ​​World Charm
Certainly, the tendency of every chatter (the users of a chat facility) is to hide his real identity, it is seen from the nickname that they use as their original identity. His name may seem very strange or not a little silly sometimes even making it up. Co-cool, co-cute, barbiegirl, ce-sweet, whitesoul etc. are few examples of millions of nicknames that usually hung in different chatrooms.
It's human nature to not trust other people, especially the new familiar. That is one reason why the chatter tends to hide his true identity. Not only in name, even information relating to age, residence (location), employment and the workplace, up to - this is most often kept secret - marital status!
The attitude of prudence which is the reason early to conceal his identity was later continued in a subsequent conversation, the next and so on. It could be said, because it originally had falsified identity-if not too rude to be called a lie, then the answers or statements so would tend to fake well. Interestingly, despite the chatter seemed to understand each other that each person tends to 'false way' because they were doing the same thing, the chat mania that turned out to really enjoy chat (false) is.
It's not surprising if the chat later developed into an arena of 'stocking charm' among its users. Starting from the intellectual attractions, beautiful words touched the heart strings (usually made to the opposite sex) to the seduction was not free rag decorate your monitor screen. Yet not all chatrooms contain bogus stuff and also the chatter that tends to lie, because certainly there-a chatroom chatroom mengkedepankan more beneficial aspects of dialogue with the chatter is also able to chat with the aim of which is relatively more obvious, more pithy rather than just stocking charm or vent-curhatan. For this one group, even they did not hesitate to get out of the chatroom if talks had led to something futile and useless.
'Dating' in Virtual World
A local Islamic sites in Indonesia which provides consulting and frequently asked questions often get emails with similar questions, such as, "Could ta'aruf with the opposite sex through the internet / chat?" or even "what is the ruling on seeking a mate from the chat?"
There's even netters who openly admits he is 'confident' (confident) to chat via chat or email rather than having to meet in person. Among young Muslim teenagers, chatting considered a container the more 'safety' to do friendship or discussion rather than have face to face with the risk of seclusion. So assuming that could be considered a rush it, maraklah-chatroom chatroom was filled by the Muslim-Muslim. Even some of those who notabenenya labeled activists.
On the one hand, technological advances can not be dammed its speed and as Muslims who also want to move forward is certainly not want to miss in following the latest technological developments and trends if you do not wish to be called 'gaptek' or stuttering technology. But on the other hand unconsciously shifted little by little social norms which initially became a taboo made between the opposite sex. For example, which is usually 'not dare' to speak directly with the reason his gaze and avoid seclusion, is now free air 'haha-hihi' at the event to chat with each other despite not really know each other.
Not only that, from the laugh with the funny things that emerged from the ranks of words on the screen until the actual disclosure of identity, provide answers or solutions to any problems interlocutor, all of which are included in the scenario of the charm of the dispersive chatter, which it did not dare them to do in the real world for reasons not 'confident' for a variety of physical and nonphysical deficiencies they had, came the seeds of new hope that want to make it more than just friends to talk or discussion. Miraculous indeed, human beings who had been experiencing symptoms of inferiority, the Internet can created a superior human being confident, at least as long as he's still in the virtual world.
Be the next day full of charm blushing flower of love. Hammock fingers over the keyboard keys as a witness how they are being lulled hope crochet future. Rows of words contained in the monitor screen started beautifully engraved full of meaning, attention and even affection and love. After that, comes the desire to copy the land, the term of the chatter to conduct face-to-face meetings or directly to end her curiosity during this original form of the him.
Oops! Until this carefully because it could be unwittingly you've done adultery liver. If the chat that you do have lead to things that do not make any difference with people like dating, like spit charm to captivate, to give excessive attention that you do not deserve, give or put too much hope for love and joy of the future.
Not that there is also a ban on chatting for the purpose of pre-marital ta'aruf. Only problem is, it is not conditioned and communicated so well and awake heart of the game that could be the devil to play in it (na'udzubillaahi dzalik min.)
If we can talk (about the heart and the tendency towards the opposite sex) with a reasonable level, with hearts that remain intact from the possible emergence of a desire that tends to lust, with the attitude and words that will not degrade and eliminate the essence of the purpose of ta'aruf and ukhuwah itself and not even stuck on a game of words attention (taushiah) sheathed in love, would still be justified. But the problem is, how much of us are truly ready and able to do so. And if you are honest in our hearts feel heavy, you should avoid and be better choose the other person is more similar to keep the heart clean.